Happy Lunar New Year

Wow that is so pretty, I used AI for this. It’s the year of the Fire Horse. The Year of the Fire Horse may be described as a period of increased activity and stronger expression.

For snakes like me, apparently it will be a year to be seen. No pressure.

But it sort of makes sense, last year was a bit of a transformation year. We did a big renovation, changes in our family dynamic, adjusting to a new reality. This year has already been a bit tumultuous. Fiery is good, but life also needs to be about balance.

I hope your new year is off to a great start!

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The Girl with Nowhere to Go – a book review

The Girl With Nowhere To Go by Louise Guy

My rating: 4 of 5 stars


A story about unresolved trauma, divided families, buried family secrets that starts out with a mysterious 16 year old orphan girl, with nowhere to go. Bec is a recent widow, dealing with the loss of a beloved husband and mother of twin teenagers. She’s had a long rift with her parents – lying to her kids even about their existence. Skye is the young girl who shows up at Bec’s program – Bec’s business helps people reclaim/ rebuild their lives. Bec’s program offers an alternative to detention as long as Skye, who has had run-ins with the law and difficulties with foster care, shows up for scheduled sessions. Anna runs a counseling centre, and Bec decides to involve her in helping Skye. When Bec realizes that Skye is homeless, hungry, and is not staying with her fosters; her kids convince her to let Skye stay with them temporarily. We learn more about Anne life and her past as well. Eventually it becomes clear how their lives intersected unknowingly many years ago.

This was a super quick read – I read it in a day as the plot moved along quickly. I was emotionally vested, even if some of the plot twists were rather convenient. But I could sympathize with the main characters. There was foreshadowing which was enough for me to figure out the natural conclusion.
This is the first book I read by this author. I would read another.

This just published on January 28. I would recommend this 4/5 . Thanks to the Boldwood Books, the author and Netgalley for an ARC in exchange for a review.



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Scattershot Saturday

Winter olympics! Perfect weekend for it, woke up to -21 degree weather.

I’m Canadian, but that is really cold.

I was in Montreal for most of this past week, for a work meeting. Montreal was also VERY cold.

Figure skating, skiing, curling (ever done that? it’s fun!), HOCKEY — I’m excited to watch.

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I finally got to the gym today, That’s one thing about travel for work – I’ve always packed gym stuff, but very rarely went to the hotel gym. This time I didn’t even bother packing anything. But that meant four full days without the a workout. That, combined with extra coffee breaks, extra carbs, buffet meals and breakfast (I don’t eat breakfast) meant I did gain some weight. Arrrggggghhhh! I was doing so well too.

Darn it.

Remember that issue with my foot before Christmas? I got an X-ray. No fracture, but evidence of arthritis, bone spurs (and bunions, which I knew about). I need to back off on high impact — or at least “modify” my exercise.

I have tried Bodypump Heavy which just rolled here in Canada. Slower reps with heavier weights. Not as much cardio but strength development is a new priority for me. Hopefully that will help.

I did “Moist” January (I finally broke the last weekend before February. Lately, if I overindulge, my sleep suffers for it.)

But on another sleep note, we got a new bed! Yippee! The last time we bought ourselves a bed was 25 years ago. Long overdue.

We went for Indian food tonight – perfect cozy meal for a weekend like this.

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Scattershot Saturday

January flew by.

Let’s get caught up.

It was COLD this week — a huge snowstorm made it an easy decision to hunker down with my coffee, and cozy new slippers!

The most comfortable feeling, having warm feet! And then I binge watched :

I did it. My guilty pleasure, all 4 episodes of Season 4 part 1, done in 48 hours.

I honestly think it’s my favourite season yet.

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Blue Monday

Marvin Martian, he greets me this Monday. With coffee.

Today is apparently Blue Monday … the 3rd Monday in January. Supposed to be the most depressing day of the year? I hope not.

We watched Marty Supreme last night – what a great movie. But the extra beauty of it was the soundtrack, heavily 80s, used in this film that takes place in the 1950s. About table tennis! And another thing I took from the movie – I hold my ping pong racket the way the Japanese champion was holding it. My parents were huge ping pong fans (they met playing ping pong) and my Mom is a slayer. I was taught to hold it the “pen” way too.

Here’s some extra bounce for you today… it used to get me onto the dance floor. A good way to banish away the blues..

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Face Timing

My kids face-timed me last night. At the same time.

Firstborn: ” Hey Mom, what’s going on? I miss you!” Brilliant blue sky framed his face, his dark sunglasses now part of his SoCal uniform.

I smiled, as I noticed in my periphery, the winter white snow blowing outside my window.

A few minutes into the call, I get a video call request – it’s my not so little G.

“Hold up Mom, I can let her in” said my boy… and in she popped. Her face in frame, from her shoulders I could tell she’s in her usual uniform. Pyjamas.

“I’m being surrounded by crows! What the heck – there are like a dozen of them around me – maybe it’s the new stuff I put in my hair!”

His sister: – “…yeah, they probably think you’re food. They’re coming after you! ”

Me: “I doubt you know this, but reminds me of the movie “The Birds” (which honestly, was made before I was born. I remember the iconic scenes of the birds chasing down Tippi Hendren. Tippi being the mother of Melanie Griffith, and grandmother of Dakota Johnson – who my kids don’t even know. Dating myself and digressing…)

I love the banter that followed, as my son made his way back to his apartment from the rooftop.

“Gonna make dinner now! See this (he opens his fridge) … it looks like sh#t but it’s actually salmon marinating in miso sauce!

“Yum”. says my daughter. I know that she just made tofu and beef for dinner, she had texted me earlier.

Me: “What is up with this, you both cook so well when you’re on your own, but at home ?”

“Adulting while away. But kids when we’re home, Mom. That’s just how it is”.

Well, partly true. They’ll always be kids to me.

Random facetiming. The best.

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Country People – a book review

Country People by Daniel Mason

My rating: 4 of 5 stars


A family of four travel from the comfort of liberal California to the country, Vermont when Kate, the mom, takes the opportunity to be the visiting English professor at a renowned college. Miles, the dad, is still working on his PhD on Russian folktales – it’s taken about a dozen years, he’s still struggling to finish it. With the advent of a couple of kids, he’s willingly taken on the bigger caregiver role, taking a back seat while Kate moves forward with her academic career. Their kids Olive and Wesley, and their dog Guiseppe round out the crew. So maybe this year in the country, will be the perfect time for Miles to finish up his thesis and live up to his potential to make his family (ie. his parents) and wife proud.

While Kate gets settled into work, Miles continues his stay-at-home Dad duties, including school drop offs, running errands, and exploring with his trusty Guiseppe at his side (the author had me at Guiseppe – gotta love a dog with that name!). But rather than focus on his writing, something always gets in his way and there are distractions galore, as he gets to know the neighbourhood, town, countryside, meeting the most interesting folks. Kate encourages him to get out, she knows her husband well enough to know he needs the social interaction. Miles also gets involved with the school, the parents, who are very different than their California equivalents, and even gets invited to secret meetings with locals who are in search of evidence of local legend.

I can’t do any of the characters justice, each one of them is so different and unexpected, and I often laughed out loud reading what was going through Miles’ mind as he made his own judgements and measured people up. It is so often hilarious, and yet very realistic in the day to day – having spent some of my own time as a stay-at-home parent, with my identity quite tied to work/career, I found the perspective of Miles’ Dad experience very refreshing. Also, the very clever use of the radio phone-in shows dialogue– so true to life, when you’re in and out of the car!

And finally, the way the marriage was portrayed, with basic insecurities even after a couple has been together for a very long time. The author weaves in some serious bits about health, scares with the kids, what love and dedication mean, but not in a dramatic way, just very realistically, as life is like that.

This was a solid 4 for me (I would have given 4.5 stars but not quite a 5 because some of the pacing I found a little slow.)

Thanks to the author, Random House and Netgalley for the advanced readers copy in exchange for an honest review. The book will be published July 2026.




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New Normal

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It’s 7 am on a Saturday. I’m up because I’ve been awake since 6:22 am. Which is late for me. No one else is up yet.

The new normal.

The house is quiet, it’s still a bit dark, snow falls softly outside my window.

It’s the three of us at home right now.

My boy will be leaving this morning to head back to his home in California. We were lucky he was able to visit with us for as long as he could, he spent alone time with my Mom, joined us for festivities with our extended families and met up with his closest friends. He left random drink glasses around the house, borrowed our car, used a number of towels, got a bad case of the flu (ugh-but Tamiflu is a miracle). He even got Mc’Donalds (delivery for him and two of his best childhood friends who hung out with him in the basement), and had a craving for a Tim Horton’s timbit on New Year’s Day (albeit sorely disappointed that they didn’t have any at the drive -thru).

Just like old times. Except not -it was unusual that all the boys were in town to meet up. When his closest buddy came over he gave me a huge hug-I hadn’t seen him in over a year. I’ve known him since the boys were 3 years old. Just like old times.

My son is excited to get back to his life in the new year. He’s got some new friends, work is changing in a good way. His relationship with his girlfriend is going strong. It’s been lovely seeing them establish a life together. Adulting.

So, seeing him fly away? The new normal.

My daughter is coming home later this afternoon. She spent the last few days of 2025 with her new boyfriend and his family. We had most of December with her, some wonderful “four of us” together time, laughs, hugs, their constant teasing of their parents. Binging TV series ( Emily in Paris for us girls , Stranger Things me and the kids – their Dad is not a fan) ..shopping ( just a little). Tonight, it will again be three in the house.

Until tomorrow, when she heads back to school.

Then there will be two. Like it was at the beginning of December. The new normal.

Normal is ok. We can elevate normal- it doesn’t have to be boring.

It’s what you make it. I’m looking forward to thriving in it.

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Kids’ TV

This made me laugh…

The fight between Steve Austin, Six Million Dollar (Bionic) Man, and Big Foot. Heroic white man versus a misunderstood latex and fur Sasquatch character. I loved that stuff.

Like many of my generation, I spent any of my free time plunked in front of the TV as a kid. There’s a local TV station that runs some of these old shows like the above, including Leave it to Beaver, Happy Days, Laverne and Shirley, Mod Squad, All in the Family, A-Team…

On my last official day off of work today, I decided to watch what the young kids are streaming today.

Aside from “Stranger Things” (I watched the series finale with my son last night, I’d give it a solid 7.5. I will miss those kids), the biggest ticket draw for kids this past year has been this:

A fight between K-Pop Demon Hunters and demons (inner and outer).

Times have changed, in a good way. Representation. Asian female heroes. Who sing!

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Happy New Year 2026

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